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The Power of Affirmations

by Rockstar 2 February 2021

It’s the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen – Muhammad Ali

When I first read about affirmations, I wasn’t sure this was something for me. Telling myself I’m the best and I’m good while I was feeling shit was not something I believed in. There was always a connecting with the law of attraction, but let me tell you, when you feel down this wasn’t the “thing” I wanted to focus and implement in my life.

While reading more and more books about positivity, the possibilities and opportunities with affirmations drew my attention again. The reason why this time it became interesting for me is that I read more about the scientifically proven evidence about “priming” yourself with confident and positive wordings. In none of these books they spoke about the law of attraction but about the positive emotions and the famous broaden and build concept from the book “Positivity”.

When reading the “Miracle Morning” from Hal Elrod I really started to implement affirmations on a daily basis and it really supported me in my own confidence and believe in my own competences.

Positive affirmations are very powerful because they release you from negativity, fear, worry, and anxiety. When these affirmations are repeated over and over again, they begin to take charge of your thoughts, slowly changing your pattern of thinking and ultimately changing your life.

For me affirmations are the way to set your “mindset” (thoughts, beliefs and focus) each and every day and boost your self-esteem.

Please watch this great video about affirmation:

How to create your own Affirmations?

On the internet you can find millions of great affirmations but it is important to define and create your own personal affirmation to make impact on your positive life.

Please find some starting points to define your own personal affirmations:

  • Define your own goal, what do you really want in your life? Your personal affirmation needs to be connected with your goal so that you can program your mind with your positive thoughts, beliefs and focus. Couple of examples are; financial freedom, health, emotions, relations etc.
  • Make sure you know “Why” you want your goal – know your goal and understand why you really want this – so that you start believing in your own destiny
  • Understand what you want to do to reach your goal – you can create actionable affirmations that are connected to your goal. In order to reach your goal, you need to create an action plan with things that needs to be done. Just reading out loud your affirmations with no actions from your side (and hoping for the best) will NEVER work. You need to take actions yourself!
  • Start writing down your personal affirmation based on your goal, your why and your actions. Don’t worry if you can’t think of the right ones from the beginning, please know that affirmations are not fixed and that you can change and update them to make them better and more powerful for yourself.
  • When you have your first affirmation you need to start building the habit to read them out loud (so that if someone is next to you, he or she can hear you) every day! I do this each morning during my miracle morning habit.

One thing you can also do is to write down your affirmation on you “reminder cards” like I wrote in one of my previous post

To end this post, I will share with you my personal daily affirmations that supports me during my day, use them as inspiration but make sure you create your own personal affirmations:

  • I feel strong, powerful & happy and all things will be fine because I never give up
  • Hocus Pocus keep the fucking focus (when I’m overwhelmed and need focus to control my tasks and thoughts)
  • I’m happy and relax
  • Everything will be fine
  • I take good care of myself
  • I consistently think healthy and positive thoughts
  • From today everything is going better
  • I am valuable
  • Whatever happens: I can handle anything

Have fun in defining your own affirmations and make them feel powerful for yourself!

Photo by Patrick Tomasso on Unsplash

2 February 2021 0 comment
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How reminder cards supported me in my burn-out recovery

by Rockstar 14 January 2021

In advertising you have the “the power of repetition”. Very strong brands like Apple, Coca Cola, Lego are still spending million of dollars in advertising to keep the brand on top of our minds.

In todays world we get thousands of stimuli everyday, we have hundreds of things we need to do so our brain needs reminders to have brands or actions on top of our mind.

This is also needed when changing a behaviour or adapting a new routine (or habit).  There is a myth that it takes 21 days for a new routine to be a part of your behaviour, but multiple studies showed that it take much longer, around 66 days.

21 days or 66 days, I think the length doesn’t matter, it is the whole route to get adapted to the new behaviour and for me I needed to be reminded of my goals and the behaviour that I wanted to change.  Since I already had a busy life before my burn-out I didn’t want to fall into the get-back-to-my-busy-life pitfall and needed to think about a system how to remind myself about the ‘deal’ I made with myself to come back stronger.

I started to write a daily journal about my feelings but realised this wasn’t working and after a week I realised this is not the tool that will support me in adapting a new behaviour that is need to change my life. I went to a store that sell office supplies and found some small cards and immediately I had the idea to create some kind of reminder cards that I could take with me during the day.

I must say this was one of the best ideas I found myself, all other ideas I found online or I have read in books but this idea just came up and it turned out to be very successful for me.

The same day I bought the cards I wrote all things I needed to remind myself about and started to implement these reminder cards on a daily basis. Each day I just picked a couple of cards and started to read them out load and asked myself if I was still on track. If yes, great. If not, change and refocus. Another learning was to reward myself with small things if I have lived by my new routine during the day. Some small reward examples:  give myself time to read a book, buy a book or something small. Just to get my dopamine rewarded. This really worked for me.

Below you can find some real examples I added to my reminder cards:

  • On the first card I wrote was an old manta of mine – Let’s Fucking Rock N Roll
  • Eat the live frog first, which means start with the hardest and difficult action first thing stimuli in the morning, don’t wait with it until the end of the day
  • 2 minutes power pose – please watch this video from Amy Cuddy – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7dWsJ-mEyI
  • How often did I say “No” today?
  • Did I avoid a conflict today? If yes how will I change this?
  • Speak up!
  • I make my own chooses, also how I react on negativity
  • What are my 3 most important tasks for today?
  • Don’t wait for a good day; just make it a good day!
  • Be grateful – count your blessings
  • Enjoy good memories
  • Who did I help today and what kind of positivity did I give that person?
  • Focus – do one thing at a time
  • Are the things I do now a part of my overall goal?
  • Indecision is killing, better to take a wrong decision than no decision
  • Are your goals still clear?
  • I will make it a good day today!
  • Are my thoughts calm? If not take a break and just breath
  • Focus on what is important
  • Eliminate what is not important
  • Despite the fact you are a rockstar, it doesn’t mean you can do everything yourself
  • You can’t change what is not in your circle of influence
  • Are you following your passion today?
  • It is okay to make mistakes, as long as you learn from it
  • Are your boundaries still clear, if not you need to sharpening them
  • Did I learn something new today?
  • Did I reward my good behavior today?
  • You are not a victim, you are a fighter – winner never quit and quitters never win
  • Right here, right now

So in order to keep going with your new behaviour and support your behavioural change, I would advise you to implement this simple discipline tool with the reminder card. It supported me a lot so I think it is worthwhile trying for you as well.

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